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Post by noodle16 on Jun 5, 2008 18:47:51 GMT -5
ive gotten this thread deleted about 2-3 times already, pleez, dont delete it again, im starting to get angry and i dont want that to end up getting me banned. but anyways, ive been stressed out like crazy lately up tp the point where im losing my hair!! We all hav times like this and we all hav some that we keep inside and dont let out. Well, here is a place where you all can do that and find some one who would accually listen and try their best to help. ;D
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Post by amy on Jun 6, 2008 19:36:26 GMT -5
wow well this is so a place u dont want me in...cuzz if u now me i will let it out anywhere!!! i think noodle knows wat i mean so i just stop by to see wat this was all about and know i now... XD
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Post by noodle16 on Jun 6, 2008 19:41:50 GMT -5
lolz, ofcourse TOKKA, since i alraedy know how u r!! so dont worry, im not like SOME people on the forum...
*cough* FLZ *cough*
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Post by amy on Jun 6, 2008 20:24:23 GMT -5
lol
*cough*yeah i know wat u mean*cough*
lol yeah i say wat i want to say... X]
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Post by noodle16 on Jun 11, 2008 16:37:20 GMT -5
i dont know what to do anymore guys, im soooo just UHHHHH... lately. i hanvt eaten anything in days, i barely sleep and every morning i wake up to a name stuck in my head...
...Alex... ... Alex... ...
i i dont know whats wrong with me. i feel sick and guilty. what am i doing thats so wrong? my friends hav been trying to get me to eat something but i cant. i cant even look at food or i get really sick!
i need to know whats going on with me. i need help!
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Post by amy on Jun 11, 2008 17:55:09 GMT -5
yes u do my deer and i think it called "LOVE" thats wat i think is wrong w/ u!!!!
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Post by noodle16 on Jun 11, 2008 18:45:44 GMT -5
i dont think its love! it cant be. but it hurts and im scared... hes a great guy but i just dont want Joe to get hurt. And i cant bare being hurt again either!
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Post by amy on Jun 12, 2008 20:59:38 GMT -5
im lost so u like both of them?
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Post by zutarian56 on Jun 12, 2008 22:45:59 GMT -5
i dont think its love! it cant be. but it hurts and im scared... hes a great guy but i just dont want Joe to get hurt. And i cant bare being hurt again either! First off, eat something even if you feel sick. Low blood sugar will keep you from thinking strait. Secound off, it may not be full blown love but you are definatly attracted to this guy on a deeper level, and to ignore it is silly becuase it will manifest in other ways. Thirdly, you need to let Joe down because it seems pretty obvious you've chosen Alex wheather you want to admit it or not. There is no easy way out of this situation, but to stay where you are right now will just hurt everyone includeding you. Break the news easy to Joe but do it in a way that lets him save face if he wants to. Tell him how you feel about Alex and what you are doing with himin a way a friend would confide in a friend so he can deny his feelings if he wants to. I've been in this situation before, and pride is a powerful emotion, even if you both know whats really going on it would probably be better if he could act like he thinks you don't. This is just my advise based on my personal experiences. You don't have to take it if you don't want, but know this: there will be a time, most likely very soon, when you will look back on this drama and relize it wasn't such a big deal. Just breath, and move foward, for it is the only way you can move. By the way, the other guy's name is Joe right? |
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Post by noodle16 on Jun 13, 2008 14:49:37 GMT -5
yes, this does help. ive just been going thru so much lately and i dont know if i could handle it anymore. theres alot going on at home and i dont think i can take the constant fighting between my parents. im tired of it already! i can barely talk to either of them without them talking sh** about eachother and i hav no say in it becuz theyve already said that it doesnt matter what i say becuz its not gonna change anything. i dont know how to deal with this becuz either way, my parents are too busy fighting with eachother even tho theyre 1000 miles apart and hav been divorced for nearly 15 years now. They divorced about 2-3 weeks after i was born, and within everyday i feel as if it was my fault. So what am i supposed to do about this? I really miss my mom, cuz i was so close to her than my dad, but i cant handle all the fighting and the yelling. and i am just so tired of having to cry myself to sleep every nite. i guess all i can do is deal with it right? i cant talk to them about, becuz ive tried, i really hav. So the best thing i could really do is ignore it, right?
and ive made my decisoin about the guys. Becuz ive realized that every time im with Alex, all of this, the regret the pain and hurt just seems to disapear. and when i feel his arms around me i feel like i just will never hav to deal with this stuff again. but i hate having to hurt someone for my happiness, especially if its Joe, who has never hurt anyone like the way im fixing to him. But i know now how i feel. and im gonna tell him yes to that question he asked me yesterday.
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Post by zutarian56 on Jun 13, 2008 17:41:45 GMT -5
Hey, your parents divorce wasn't your falt. I mean your were just born, what could you have done? It is their problem, not yours so try not to stress to much about it. You really aught to see about joiing kids-in-the-middle. I don't know if they have a meeting place near you, but I think you would definatley benifit from joining a group. I know its what got me through my parents divorce, it made me feel like i wasn't alone and like everything was going to be okay.
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Post by amy on Jun 14, 2008 11:34:39 GMT -5
yes she does hav a point...
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Post by noodle16 on Jun 17, 2008 15:44:05 GMT -5
thanx guys, and i went to the movies with Joe the other day and i decided it was time to t5alk about my desicion with Alex, he was pissed! we havnt really talked since then but i still talk to his brother, billy, who tells me hes really depressed. it breaks my heart but ive got someone who still loves me alot. and that makes me ... idk, just soooo excited
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