do you have boyfriend or girlfriend problems?

[keoshiwarrior376]

here is where you will state you problem about a boy or girl you like or dating. And anyone or everyone will help you!






ok i will be first{i'm a girl}

i have a friend who always flirts with guys all the time and usually with the guys i like. and well there was this boy who one of my other friends knew i liked so she asked him if he liked me.

he answered ''no'' in the note my friend gave him. so i thought he was just lieing.

Later i ask him out{this was about a week later}

he says he doesn't want a girlfriend which made me sad.but said we can still be friends.

BUt my friend who flirts with guys alot knows i like this boy. and she flirts with him. i have a feeling he likes her. but then i found out that he doesn't like her...good. and there is this dance coming up...well do you think i should ask him?

sorry that was really long.



help me please

what do you think?

[amy]

tell him ur feels ur self...on face to face...if that dont help u then sorry i have my own problem's!

[keoshiwarrior376]

ok thanks

[admin]

Well, there are different things you could do, depending on what type of girl you are.

1) Get back at your friend by screwing up her relationship with the next guy she goes out with for revenge (eventhough this option doesn't help much).
2) Ask him, but if he says no, don't feel to bad. "There are other fish in the sea."
3) Get him to know you; get him to like you. Then ask him.


If none of those work, then I'm sorry, I can't help.

[keoshiwarrior376]

thanks for the info i think i well go with #2

#3 would work cuz in some peoples visons of who i am i'm kind of a

band greek, nerd{sometimes}, and in what someone said not cool enough.

even though i don't believe them will ask him out. and just find someone else


thanks.

[admin]

No problem, eventhough I'm not sure it solved your problem. Any other info I might need to know to be able to help you?

[keoshiwarrior376]

nope not that i know of

[noodle16]

flirt.

a good way to flirt is always keep eye contact, this always makes guys go crazy, then look away, it may keep him wanting more, (not in a bad way!!)

dont try to make him jealous, ok? trust me, he mite think ur over him and u like this other guy,

be friends, maybe this will lead 2 something special, you never know, Ive known my crush for seven years and ive just realized im falling in love with him, maybe ur guy will 2! (this is the second time ive fallen for some1, the one below is the first)


I just got off a great relationship, this was the first time ive ever been in love and, well my heart was soon broken. he just wasnt the rite guy,
so ask yourself, is this guy rite for you? I mean , he didnt even bother to give u a chance and missed out ona really great person, so think about it, is all the pain of loseing 1 guy worht it? take it from some1 who still hasnt found the rite guy bcuz all the 1s shes been with are all jerks.

I hope things work out, hes missing on an awesome person

[amy]

May 4, 2008 20:18:48 GMT -5 admin said:

Well, there are different things you could do, depending on what type of girl you are.

1) Get back at your friend by screwing up her relationship with the next guy she goes out with for revenge (eventhough this option doesn't help much).
2) Ask him, but if he says no, don't feel to bad. "There are other fish in the sea."
3) Get him to know you; get him to like you. Then ask him.


If none of those work, then I'm sorry, I can't help.

HAHAH I WOULD PICK #1 XP!!!!!!!!

[FourNations93]

Hmm... you guys want to give me a little advice? I don't necessarily have a boyfriend.. not officially It's confusing.

Okay. So this guy, Erik, asked me on a date. I went. It was fine... no details really needed. I kept in contact with him and all. I see him a couple times a week and he texts me a lot. Now only a couple days ago (Monday I believe) I'm at the library. He is there too but I'm not sitting with him.

Well, a friend-ish (I know him but I don't know if I consider him a friend) guy named Jose enters the library (I don't know that cause I'm online and not paying attention). Well, he talks to Erik. Jose comes up to me and tells me that Erik was talking about me (yapping on and on.. lol). Well, I text Erik later asking him about it and he says Jose and him didn't talk about me that long.. didn't talk that long period. So, I drop the subject not caring to continue it.

The next day, Jose and my friend Hanna pass me in the hallway. A few minutes later I get a text from Hanna saying "You have a BOYFRIEND?!". I tell her no (cause I don't.. he didn't ask me and nothing is official or whatever). Supposedly Jose told her that Erik had told him that we were going out. (hope you caught that...)

So do I text Erik about it? Or keep it to myself? I'm not positive Erik even said those things. Jose has been known to assume things or exaggerate to make good gossip

GAH! -_-

[admin]

Um, I just got finished reading, and my answer is: if you don't want to be more than just friends with him, then just give him a text message something like this -

Hey, I was wondering if you thought we were going out, since we're just friends.

I've never sent a text message before, so I'm not sure how teenagers type them.

[amy]

omg i feel so sorry for u...( z )
u dont know how to text? that punny

[garygao13]

I know how to text, but i dont text that often.

Anyways @ Fournations

I think you should confron Erik about this. If it was really Jose that spread these rumors then Erik Might think that you had said that you and him were goin out. (confusing i know lol) Anyways, If I were you, I would just get my cell out and text him =)